My Daughter Won Big Brother Naija, My Father Says She Refused to Help

Emmanuel Godson Odiniya says his daughter Ilebaye refused to help him financially after her Big Brother Naija All Stars run, a dispute that ended with police intervention.

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Why I assaulted my daughter, Ilebaye – Father

, the father of Big Brother Naija All Stars winner , was arrested after a video of his daughter in tears and with visible facial swelling went viral and police responded to a distress call at their Abuja home, according to authorities and an audio the father later shared online.

The Federal Capital Territory police say they answered a call from , Wuye, Abuja, on 9 May 2026 at about 12:00 a.m. reporting an ongoing physical assault on Ms. Ilebaye O. A viral clip that followed showed Ilebaye pleading for help and has been widely circulated on social media.

In a recording posted on social media by journalist on Sunday, Odiniya described a long-simmering rift with his daughter and laid out the grievance that, he said, sparked the confrontation. "I used my influence seriously to make people of and all over vote massively for my daughter," he said, adding that "even governors of some states and my colleagues donated money which was used in buying the IUC."

Odiniya accused Ilebaye of failing to publicly thank or support the people who backed her during the reality show, and of repeatedly insulting and disrespecting him over the years. He also alleged episodes of physical confrontation, and said his daughter once advised him to divorce her mother and exposed her younger brother to substance abuse.

The immediate dispute, Odiniya said in the audio, involved money he needed for a medical check-up in . "The most recent one that I was not happy about was when I was supposed to go for medical check-up in Dubai. I told my daughter, ‘I’m lacking resources, please borrow me a certain amount of money, the money I’m expecting hasn’t come.’ My daughter told me she doesn’t have money," he said.

Odiniya contrasted that claim with what he described as Ilebaye's public spending a week earlier. "A week before that, come and see how my daughter was spraying bundles of money at the wedding of one of her colleagues whom they call ," he said. "That is not the problem. I will be happy if my daughter supports her colleagues, but what about your father? If you help your father, is anything wrong?"

The arrest followed the alleged assault at the family residence, and police have confirmed they responded to the scene shortly after midnight on 9 May. The sequence — an earlier run on Big Brother Naija All Stars, the father's claims of mobilisation and financial support, a public display of cash at a wedding, and then a denied request for assistance — frames the dispute now before investigators.

The contradictions are stark and sharpen the legal and reputational stakes. Odiniya insists he used personal influence to boost his daughter's profile in Kogi State and beyond and that donors, including unnamed governors and colleagues, contributed money linked to her campaign in the show. Yet his recording and the viral distress video together show a father publicly airing private grievances even as police work to establish what happened inside the family home.

For readers wondering whether Ilebaye refused to help, the answer is clear in Odiniya's account: he says she did. He alleges she told him she had no money just days after he says she celebrated at a colleague's wedding by "spraying bundles of money," and that the denied request contributed to the confrontation that drew police. The arrest of Odiniya followed that altercation and a police response to the 9 May distress call, and authorities are now dealing with the allegations made by both the video and the father's audio.

The dispute has also become public theatre: it ties a popular reality television run to a private family collapse and has prompted questions that investigators will have to answer about what occurred that night and which of the competing claims – the father's long-standing grievances or the daughter's account in the distress video — are borne out by evidence. Meanwhile, the record Odiniya has put online will shape public perception even as the police process proceeds.

Round Time News has previously covered the media and cultural moment that shows like Big Brother Naija create, from awards nights to sporting parallels; see coverage of events and profiles here and here as the story develops.

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